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If you\'re a guy picking the right woman or a girl picking the right man. The right person should be chosen with immense thought in precision. So this leads me to the question: What comes to mind when you pick your partner?

For a guy the traits most commonly seen for picking a girl are:

• Appearance, Attractiveness. I find her attractive, other guys do as well.
• Fertile. She has physical traits most commonly seen in fertility. Wide hips, large bust.
• Tolerable, we can actually stand one another.
• Choosing signals. Is she giving me signals of interest? Hitting on me.

And for woman the traits are:

• Money & Status, can he provide for the both of us (and future children)? Is he financially stable?
• Looks, is he attractive to me, and do others find him attractive.
• Strong, & Protective, Can he protect and fight for you. Alpha Male
• loyalty
• Father figure, is he reliable, safe,
• Can he help me grow, does he have connections and avenues for success
• Sex, is he good in bed
• Purpose, and goal oriented

So what a woman is looking for is seemingly endless. You can even add in things like height, penis size, body type, profession, net worth, goals, purpose and vision. Women are drawn to signs of stability and protection, mostly survival based instincts. Meaning can he provide the best stable lifestyle for her and her future kids. For men traditionally speaking, we are historically sexual based. As in appearance, hair, healthy skin, and child bearing assets such as hips, breast, bust, and legs. Oddly enough for most men this is about where it ends. You can be border line dumb, or broke. But if you\'re attractive, you’ll typically be selected over an average woman with many things going on for herself.

Beyond basics

However, what if you\'re someone like Alex Hormozi, Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg or yes even Jay-Z and Kanye West? Would you say what they\'re looking for in a girl would be the same as someone that’s average? I’d say not. These are all rising stars, business tycoons, moguls and individuals with extreme status, having connections with an image and quality to uphold. The moguls I mentioned above, each have a wife synonymous with their brand and image. I don’t need to mention the women that are synonymous with them, you already know. Each wife isn’t just a clout accessory, they are all business billboards, tycoons in their own right. They stand on their own two feet, and can be the absolute best representation of their brand. Their wives are a complete reflection of who they are, and countless other moguls have wives that are also known with their brand.

Regrets for women

Picking the wrong person could lead you in a world of limits in misery. You’ll constantly be wondering what If I held out a bit longer for someone who could have helped me bring my dreams to immersible heights. As in maybe there was a Kanye West for me. Helping me create a series of businesses, brands found in galas, beauty lines, shows, movies, social media, global name recognition, music etc. Then there’s the fear of having kids too soon with a man that will lead you nowhere. If the man stagnates, your life typically won\'t be any better than it is now. You’ll never grow beyond the typical suburban lifestyle, of work, and family. You’ll have the same car, apartment or home for the rest of your life, typically one that’s being paid off for the next 15 or 30 years. If there is a massive disruption in income (loss of job/income/revenue stream, serious injury, demonetization) you run the risk of losing your apartment or equity put into your home. The fear of struggling becoming a single mother having to raise kids alone also plagues many women.

If your a boss bitch, you may want to grow higher utilizing a more established mans resources like Hailey Bieber. Thus having no regrets or you may want to have a man that\'s doing really well. As in the man you choose should help you grow together. Even though Nick Cannon was well established in many avenues, Mariah Carey was well beyond his success and legacy. But he could stand on his own two feet, and together they build a family brand. After all woman typically don\'t date and marry down they marry lateral (across) and expodetionaly (up). If your bossing, regrets of limiting growth may plague you. Not to mention most men are put off by the notion of a woman that can hold her own as jealousy and spite may plague. But don\'t hold out too long for the perfect man, eggs don\'t last for ever unless frozen. And you don\'t want to settle.

Regrets for men

Picking the wrong person can lead you in a realm of misery. As in having a (kids) family with the wrong women can lead you in a world of child support. Being too naive and gullible can leave you susceptible to gold diggers, allowance driven nobodies, leeches, promiscuous women, succubus, losers, egotists, schemers, murders, thieves, and so on. 99% of women are nothing special, just adjustable 7’s. However since they paint their face (make-up), do their hair, workout, have an above average figure, attitude, confidence, diet and such. They are entitled to the highest value man with lackluster life accomplishments that don\'t measure your life achievements. When you\'re a part of the 1% you don’t want to feel like you\'re being used, taken advantage of, manipulated, coaxed, and drained.

And you especially don’t want to end up with a woman who will destroy your brand, sanity and reputation such as Will Smith’s wife. Divorce is also a notorious threat to men of superior wealth and power that not even Jeff Bezos could overcome. Even if there is a prenup, these can be thrown out with many loopholes that lawyers can wiggle insane amounts of money from a divorce. Not to mention common law is a very serious law that recognizes individuals as husband and wife in many states.

The ideal woman

This varies from person to person. What Mark Zuckerberg is looking for in his wife will be different from what Kanye West or Alex Hermozi is looking for in their wives. But one common trait is that each of their wives are synonymous with their brand. Each mogul has a vision of who their wife should be, and doesn\'t take away from who they are.

For instance Kim Kardashian is a beauty icon.

https://www.glamourmagazine.co.uk/gallery/kim-kardashian-businesses

• Clothing line (SKIMS)
• Makeup line (KKW->SKKN)

She\'s quite the accomplished woman with a staggering net worth of 1.7 Billion. All of the accomplishments listed above and further read in the article are a product of the influence of her late Husband Kanye West. Before all of these she was a promising beauty, reality star and an accessory to her previous ex\'s. The ideal woman will differ from person to person. What worked for Kanye may not exactly work for you. For instance, he is an art, fashion, pop and music icon. Instead of finding another musician he found a rising reality star.

Note there have been thousands of beautiful females that plagued reality tv. However there\'s only 1 that is a Billionaire. Mr West took his love of fame, popularity, art and fashion and applied it to Ms. Kardashian-West. With his guidance he not only elevated his own brand and name he created one of the greatest beauty icons, fashionistas, ever seen in history. Today her brand is global and her iconic figure and exotic look is echoed in 7 continents, every ethnicity, every plastic surgeon\'s office, you name it.

He capitalized her rising fame and took it to limitless potentials. She was his canvas that he took and molded to his image. She wore and dressed the way he wanted. She spoke, and said what he wanted, she was the face of his brand, seen in his music videos, seen on her own singles, echoed through every business venture idea. And yes the same can be said with Beyonce another canvas. There is no B without Jay. Those two are synonymous with one another.

If you can\'t see your woman as a synonymous reflection of your brand, what\'s the point? When you want to get to the top, you and your wife should take the elevator to the top together. You shouldn\'t be a wall where she sets her ladder against to climb to the top. Nor should you remain at the lower levels while she rises to the top floor, in vice versa. You both should be rising together.

As Beyonce rose, Jay-Z did as well. He helped her from her beauty lines, and cultivated her music brand to even include himself. Jay-Z mogoled right along with her. Your canvas, your perfect woman to share your name must be perfectly in sync with your vision. And what better way to do this than starting and growing a business together such as Alex and his wife’s acquisition.com were she is literally a walking billboard of their brand.

For myself my brand revolves mostly around entrepreneurship, investing, and software development. I\'ve always wanted to and have found promising potential females that met my level of attraction. And thus I molded them to my vision. For instance I\'m into smart exotic females with long hair that are independent, and into entrepreneurship, and arts such as acting and design. Although I\'m an introvert and minimalist, I don\'t require them to be. In fact, ones that are extroverted, into building their name as a brand, talk shows, streaming, social media, beauty, fashion, anime, and such are a plus. I\'m developing my own social networks kodospace, velocity, amitifly… so it works out. She could be the star of my platforms. I don\'t want us both to be completely boring, some differences are needed. In fact I want her to benefit where I lack in vice versa. So we are a complete circle.

I want to someday toss my resources, connections, money, and energy into her dreams. To help build her vision to elevate it to who knows another Kim, Beyonce, Lilly Singh, Emma Chamberlain, Leila Hormozi... As in the global recognition, beauty icon, and mass mogul appeal. I even tried this with former relationships building their setups for social media shows, and envisioned a powerful brand with my direct managing, guidance and vision.

She has to be okay, with your guidance and vision. Meaning if you step away momentarily does she still have the same drive, enthusiasm and willingness to continue when you\'re away? Or does she drop off completely? She needs to have pure love and enthusiasm for her and your vision for her. For instance Beyonce loves music, and beauty lines. Kim loves her clothing and beauty brands, Leila loves her company, Melinda loves her foundation, and the list goes on. Change is good, especially when the dream guy comes their way aiming to catapult you to the levels of female tycoons and moguls that stand on their own.

If it aligns with her talents and vision, nothing should shock. If I pull a Kanye and donate/sell all your clothing, shoes, tech, equipment, setup etc. In exchange, if I buy all new stuff, you should be okay with it. Especially if I design a new set, switch your styles, change the structure of your company, critique your vision, brand, look, style, response, music, art, you name it. I would even redesign your platforms and so on.

Your woman should be a representation of you. Her actions, beliefs, decisions, moves, should align with yours. She features on your social media channels or perhaps your platform if you created your own. And she should jump at the chance at you featuring on her social media, shows, brand and so on, but not over satiated. Consider these things to note:

1. Make sure she is a reflection of yourself
2. Make sure she can stand on her own
3. She must have her own dreams, goals, and ambitions
4. She must have her own money, and the potential for limitless growth
5. She needs to be marketable
6. Not a risk for embarrassment, loyal
7. You must trust her among others
8. Potential growth together
9. She trust your vision for her, yourself and the both of you.
10. She perfectly aligns with your beliefs, goals and dreams.

Choose the woman you align with carefully. Remember marriage offers no benefit, beyond the joining of kingdoms, resources and family. If she doesn\'t have a kingdom to call her own she is just there to capitalize on your resources.

Love is a marketing scheme joining the both of you in marriage benefiting the jewlers, and the marriage and divorce industry. Divorce almost always favors the women. Your life is determined and managed by state laws, lawyers, prenups, and woman that can at any moment destroy your empire. This will always cost you a fortune of never ending alimony, legal fees, and child support. Prenups are not full proof and no matter how you cut the cake you always have to pay her.

So if your going to unite the kingdoms make sure she has her own to both benefit; helping her not to rely on you. I\'m a firm believer and having the female elevate the man in success. Help her build her own dream kingdom (brands) in a way that the both of you benefit. Unite the kingdoms. If you help her from the ground up or in such a way always get equity. Kanye has 5% in SKIMS… Jay has stake in Beyonce. She had stake in Tidal, Kim has stake in YEEZY, and so on. Thus I will always have a minor stakes in my “wife\'s” ventures as her to mine as well. At the end of the day shell always have majority equity and control of her companies you helped build using your platform knowledge and resources, thus this is true mutualism.

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Since my last 5 posts, my last article was posted 5 months ago. I’m slowly getting back into it. For I believe I’ve finally overcome procrastination and writer's block. There are countless amounts of books, blogs, and articles you name it that exist. So finding something original to write about can be very difficult. As a writer you are faced with the overwhelming fact, there are millions of other content people have written before. There’s always a better writer, more reflective and introspective content that other readers may prefer. 

By the way, I’ve created a FREE productivity outline “The guide to overcoming writer's block” that can be found on the download page and seen below. Better PAID versions are on the way.

I hope you’ll find that guide/outline useful. I will be going over 5 points and solutions revolving around writer's block. This will make sense of the outline so be sure to download it. Now let’s dive in.

1. Writers' fatigue

Creating content whether it may be for a book, blog post, or social media post; requires a bit of thinking and planning. To write an article writers will spend hours to days writing it. Books months to years.

A typical writing process looks like this:

This isn’t everything but this is why it takes years to write a best-selling book. Why do blogs have 2-3 posts per month? No one is perfect, and writing takes time. Even the best writers need time. There are mountains of writers who are also co-listed to help with the overall story, picture, and point of whatever’s being written. Just look into ANY book, you’ll see other names attached to it besides the listed author.

It’s not to say there isn’t a one-person army. I’m one, and it's a struggle. Hell... I had to quit my job to get any real work done. There are teams attached to successful blogs for a reason. There are layers of filters that a single post has to go through before it is posted.

So what’s the point? The point is that this is a lot of work. This amount of work enacts writer fatigue. Thus this may put a block on your writing. For instance, I enjoy writing, but the amount of work that goes into it eventually catches up to me. The same goes for coding which is my favorite thing to do in the world.

2. The well is dry

Another element of writer's block is that you are fresh out of new ideas. The well is simply dry. You think you’ve come up with everything there is to say. This can be either the current project you writing or the next.

Solution: Regardless of if you are a blogger or an author of a book. There is similar content available for you to look at. When I’m out of ideas I seek inspiration elsewhere. For instance, this platform has a blog. The bulk of the content on the blog revolves around self-help, personal development, and entrepreneurship. So I look to blogs that are posting the same such as “The Penny Hoarder”, & “Alux”.

3. Break time

Hey, you're working too hard! Take a break, it's okay. I do it all the time, I take strategic breaks.

Solution: In fact, I use a well-known technique called the Pomodoro technique. This is simply working for 25 minutes and then taking a break for 10-15 minutes. For this method, it's good to use a timer to alert you at each 25-minute interval, then again on break times. Rinse and repeat.

More times than often I’ll work for several hours take a break for minutes to an hour then get back to work for hours. Often the entire night or day... Or I’ll work for hours and take small breaks every so often. I’ve been known to work at libraries from opening to closing of nonstop work.

Also, go for a walk, go on a bike ride, walk, or drive to the grocery store. Do something adjacent to what you're doing. It’s okay to give your brain a break. I love biking and working out. I also love watching anime, movies, and shows, and listing to music. I’ll speak on multitasking down below, you can give your brain a break, and work at the same time. Or vice versa it’s sort of like keeping your brain at an equilibrium.

4. Logging/ Stockpiling

Ideas won’t pop into your head 24/7, like we mentioned the good runs dry. So what happens when an idea for whatever your writing presents itself?

Solution: You Log it. Whether you are at the grocery store, at home, with friends, you name it you can always log your idea. So what is logging? It is as it sounds, you log the idea. It can either be titles for the next article, ideas to put in your current article, notes, book ideas chapter outlines, or whatever that may be.

Logging creates a stockpile of ideas you can return to when the well runs dry. For instance, you are a content creator, and blogger. Your site needs to constantly be posting articles to keep your readers engaged. If the content stops you, you loose readers. So when the well runs dry, you’ll have a stockpile of work to keep the content posting.

I have a folder saved on my computer with a list of pre-written articles with titles and outlines. The same goes for books I started, ideas, plans, and so on. Notion is an app I often talk about that I have ideas logged and stockpiled. It has a desktop, IOS, and Android app, all linked to the same server so you can jot down and store your ideas no matter what device you're working on. You don’t have to stay exclusive to Notion there are dozens of apps out there that you can use.

5. Batching

Ideas may come in waves, if not you already have tons of work stockpiled in your logs. Batching is a good way to get a lot of work done at one time. And it is as it sounds, you get a lot of work done at once. If you're a blogger this is a perfect, way to combat a busy life. Not everyone is at the point where they can write full-time for themselves. So batching is a great option to keep the post coming and not miss upload schedules.

So how do you implement batching effectively? You do this on your alone time. This is time that you may have off from work, family, taking care of the kids, and so forth. Let's say you work 5-6 days a week. There is a day when you won't be working. Or perhaps there are days when you have a few hours free. Take that time you have off to pile in as much work as possible. If you have a weekly posting schedule. The day or time you have free can be used to write 2-3 articles at one time.

So a question you may ask is. How can you do this and maintain quality? Well there in-lies the question. You do this by writing as much as possible, then polishing up your work during the in-between time. For instance, on a weekend you write 3 articles. Then you tweak add, update, and polish them; getting them ready to be posted when it's time to post them.

During my posting process, I take an article and prep it to be posted. I proofread, update, add images, links, and so on. This process takes hours but the majority of the work is done. However, if you want quality work, allocating several hours to days to one article is recommended. If you also have a job, and various other things going on; Time will be a fleeting factor making it almost impossible to manage the work without help.

6. Multitasking

So your having trouble coming up with ideas? One solution I do is by doing multiple things at once. If you're like me your brain may hit a pause every so often. Where you can’t think of anything. When I do multiple things at once I create many ideas while my brain juices are flowing.

Since you are working and learning at the same time (your brain is on fire) thus the ideas will come at a higher rate. Sort of like giving your brain a jolt of electricity to bring it back to life.

Hard to grasp, okay… Let’s say you're sitting at your computer working. Try having a small window open or maybe a YouTube video. If your blog is about health & fitness. Have a video about health & fitness playing while you work. By watching the video and working at the same time. You will get ideas…

Okay, now... I think you get the picture… I try to keep myself engulfed in my topic by consuming many videos on what my platform is about. And the ideas just keep coming. I’ll read other books while I work… Let’s pause. That statement takes practice. So I recommend while you're trying the Pomodoro technique I mentioned earlier, try reading related content during your 10-15 minute breaks… Keep trying it until you're able to have a window open of a post or pdf side by side of whatever you're working on. Or take breaks in between your work. Read then work, until it happens simultaneously. I used to have music playing while I read and write, I’d be zoned in for hours forgetting to eat. I need to get back into that.

7. Freelancing

I’ll make this one quick. This is self-explanatory; you outsource the work either partially or entirely to other professionals. Those ideas we have stockpiled, not to mention all the work there is to do on a well-written piece. Remember we mentioned this in Writers' Fatigue? Have a freelancer take all that stress away from you; again either entirely or partially.

A freelancer can range in any skill or profession from design to written language translation. They can be found on many platforms. I’m on my top 3, I’ve used Fiver once. Perhaps I should use them more often So I can make time for other things.

1. Fiver

1. Freelancer

1. Upwork

And there are dozens more check out this article below.

Writers fatigue, don’t fall victim to this. Blog platforms have employees for a reason. Big YouTubers have a team for a reason. Hiring freelancers helps. If originality is a big factor to you as it is to me. Write the blog at least 30% of it, have a decent outline, get your tone across then have a freelancer, team, or employee finish it. What was written is still you, someone else just finished what you wrote.

Look at it this way Beyonce has 10 -12 writers for some songs. Jay-Z who “writes” his music has a team of producers to edit, and compile his work after he records. Kanye West has a team of producers and writers that finish his work, based on his unfinished work, ideas, notes, and instructions.

Hired help takes away 95% of the things causing fatigue away from you. Now you can see your kids, go to the gym, see daylight, feed the rats, pet the fish, and work more. You now have more freedom to do whatever the f*ck you want.

https://bysophialee.com/meet-the-team/

With more help, you now have time to grow your platform at a faster rate. Instead of posting 3 videos and 3 posts a month, you can do 10 or more. I will use a team and freelancers extremely soon, so I may grow, and promote the platform. Finish the other platforms, create content, and direct

We need a video in which all MKBHD team members introduce themselves, don't we?
by u/Monk_99 in mkbhd

Your task list after freelancing will look a little like this, granted this is all subjective. You may have a team of people that’ll do all these things and you're just the face of the platform.

Conclusion

Writer's block… As a writer, we all go through it. The best option to combat writer's block is to just fight it head-on with the methods mentioned above or simply by taking a break. The planet has been around for a long time. Books, annals, recorded records, books, blogs, videos, YouTube, Google, Bing… The list goes on and on. Ideas are out there, after generations of human record keeping; there are always ideas to borrow from.

An idea is rarely unique, with over 5 thousand years of human records. More blogs than I can count, more books than I can count, more YouTube videos than I can count, and more Google searches than I can count. Information is out there, ideas are out there.

If you have an idea for an article that has already been done, do it anyway. This very title has been done more times than I can count. But hey I did it anyway. Readers aren’t subject to just one place to read and consume content there are many options. My Humor is unique, my writing style is unique. The title and point have been done before. But this is the first time you’ve heard it from kodoninja.

Theirs a lot of work to create a blog post so you’ll almost always experience writer fatigue. Implement the strategies I mentioned. Take a break, hire a freelancer, and build a team. The well runs dry, as I said you are one of hundreds of others who do the same thing. Look at their content to get ideas. Batch your work, and create a stockpile of work ready to be posted when the well runs dry. Give multitasking a go; try doing many things at once to help jolt your brain. While your multi-tasking, consume like-minded work to give you ideas to add to your notes, folder, or logs in your favorite note-taking app like Notion.

I’ve talked enough if you liked this article give it an upvote if you enjoyed it. Subscribe to the YouTube channel and please stay engaged. A team is on the way more content is coming.

I created an outline in ! These are a list of things that bring meaning to my life. I also have a FREE outline I created which helps yu find meaning and purpose. You can find this on the downloads page. Check it out below. Much more downloads on this topic on the way.

is now and has been my go-to everything planning app for over a year now. So much so that I forget I have other apps installed.

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The main 10 things on my list that bring meaning to my life in order:

These are my top 10 outlined points that create my meaningful life. What were your top 10 essential things on your list?

Oh wow… You have quite a bit…

And oh... You over there reading, it's okay. You just need to take the time to think of all the things that bring you joy in your life.

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My north star is my number 1 item. And it represents all the elements of myself. And when I have kids, it will still be my #1. You may have a person or a family listed as your number one. That’s perfectly fine. For me most of the things listed on the list will feed my legacy for generations. Thus they need to remain my top priority in life, and people will come after.

It’s not to say they aren’t important. They are. I just don’t live for others… I think about it this way; Whomever I end with will be grateful I kept them by my side while focusing on the top meaning in my life… These things keep me happy, grounded, and functioning perfectly.

If I kept a person as my number 1 priority, the kodoverse wouldn’t be a top priority. Similar individuals such as Steve Jobs were completely devoted to Apple. His legacy (his craft) brought meaningfulness to his life no matter how it treated him. It even came before his children. The same went for Elon Musk and other great gladiators throughout history.

For some there, kids and family were a driving force that kept them focused…. All subjective… We are all different…

The things in my life revolve around productivity. It’s no surprise all I produce is productive in nature. Producing results brings me joy… When I fall off the productive route I feel incomplete. When a companion becomes my pure focus I fall off.

It needs to be a pure ecosystem and balance if I were to include someone else. 

We all have different goals in life. If you're a kodoninja, you may have found more similarities on my list as opposed to those that aren't regular to the platform. 

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… This is the king of productivity apps. If you use a different app please let me know in the comment section below. I use , by having everything planned out through various pages and lists. These things are:

Any and everything I try to keep logged in . I’ll also try to organize as much as possible. I’ve always loved how robust and simple this app's layout is. It is highly recommended by me. 

Keeping notes and a log of what you need to do, will keep you productive no matter how interesting or simple your task may be. Check out the download page for FREE documents that’ll help you stay organized and productive. PAID content is on the way… 

This will keep you on track… I am living a fairly productive and meaningful life. I’m happy I am seeing the number one focus in my life become more and more developed as more content and updates flood the platform. I’ve dedicated my life to my work. With the help of tools in apps such as , and by using . It has helped me tremendously.

Take a look at some of the notes I’ve taken in my custom .

Also, take a look at some of the notes I’ve taken in my dead tree format.

As you can see my notes are vast and range from scripts for YouTube, and article posting to updates and code pushes to the kodoverse platforms.

Conclusion ^{The awesome factor (isolation/multitasking)}

If you're having trouble staying productive try to isolate yourself from distractions. As in going to a library, a park, or a quiet place. It helps if you live alone or have a room. Use a pair of headphones, noise isolating is preferred to keep yourself zoned in.

Or… Implement distractions while you work. Check out the picture below. 

At this very second of writing this article I’m simultaneously watching “Ghost in the Shell Stand Alone Complex Complete Series” I do this with YouTube, other anime, movies, and even other articles or books that will read at the same time writing or coding…

I have mountains of digital books that I read while I code or write and a collection of movies along with streaming… 

The way I see it if your gonna be lazy. Which I am. Why not get shit done at the same time. I’ll even listen to music or audiobooks while I work as well…

📝 Now, this takes some practice to master effectively. I think I’ll write an article and later a book on how I’ve managed to do this for years.

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Since I am a minimalist I only keep the essential things in my life. Other than the clothes I wear Almost everything “I own” revolves around the kodoverse. Producing content for the platform is what I live for. There’s a rush of dopamine and joy every time I acquire something that helps me produce content. If a sudden rush of happiness rushes over you when you are doing something you know this activity brings meaning to your life.

Let me know if this article helped you in any way. In addition, let me know in the content section below if you decided to download any of the free content from kodoninja.com’s download page.

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well you get the idea…

WELL, I’M THE SAME WAY… 😜 Okay, let me explain. I’ll also explain why this isn’t such a delusional ideology… So to answer this let’s back up a bit. The title of this article reads “Why staying single will be the best thing for you.” So why, right? We as humans seek companionship, sex, and comfort. And most people typically don’t want to be alone.

Persons unlike myself want to be with someone. I on the other hand love to be alone. I strive in my loneliness. And I mean that literally. Let me talk very briefly about myself, some will relate I'm sure.

I’M BORING. I don’t go out, when I’m out it's for food, biking, or “gym”… It’s for a specific reason. I don’t like to hang out, In fact, I’m not a fan of communication. However, I will speak out of curiosity, not enjoyment. I have numbers on my phone but I delete them and change my number so often, I have a tough time remembering my own number. It’s rare that I make friends. Hell, I haven’t made a friend since college. That’s how much I get out….

Okay so you get it

People are a bit of a chore, not something I actually enjoy. So okay K-O-D-O-N-I-N-J-A, what does this have to do with the article? Well... everything. And, I love you guys :) Thanks for reading. And if you're reading this. This is a pro that came from being single. This very platform spans 6 other platforms. Being single gave me the time I needed to make something as crazy as this.

While building this platform, it kind of reenacted things that I like about myself. And... I want to be with like-minded individuals, who are very similar to myself. I may be boring, but I do some interesting things. I even have a pet rock, these other losers have dogs. Anyway heres my rock...

I love my Rocky 2, he never complains, always eats his food, and loves to go on walks with me.

Rocky 1 ran away, because I forgot to feed him I think. pic.twitter.com/HFwnJMd3e9

— Emmanuel Moore (@kodoninja) March 4, 2023

My laundry list of what I'm looking for in a rock, I mean human are:

AND MY POINT IS Don’t settle. I’m sure my list a very different than what you may be looking for in rocks. This is what I’m “looking for”. For me, my goals and wants are set very high. I won't budge from this list and neither should you don’t settle but be realistic. And yes I've been with humans matching this description.

The Bottom line

If you aren’t the type of person that attracts the type of person you want. ➡️ STAY SINGLE. Be at the level in life where these types of individuals that match your description are fighting to talk to you. I'm not that person YET. Pokimane still hasn’t returned my calls.

frizzy & busy ???? pic.twitter.com/jHuVF7nbQ7

— pokimane (@pokimanelol) March 25, 2023

So I need to stay single and figure out where I went wrong. And start pulling humans again.

The picture

I’m sure we all have a list of requirements we want from an ideal person. There are a lot of people that settle out of necessity, and go for the best option around them, what's convenient, and who like them (and vice/versa). It's a big planet. Currently, there are an infinite number of rocks with thousands of types. Why settle for what you see around you? Go explore the world. 8,025,323,424 People 6 main ethnic groups over 223 nationalities… Why settle for the girl/guy (depends on whoever is reading this) you met at work. People are so vast and brimming with different personalities and skills. Go for your ideal person, and stay single as these types are readily accessible to you.

You may have a goal or something you're working towards that you are very proud of. You may be building the next Twitter, you may be an up incoming star, director, designer of your own clothing line, a blogger, or an online business owner. SOMETHING!!! right if you're on kodonija.com, you are on your purpose (AMS). Aiming to be something greater than your average Joe or Jane. And if you don’t you will have one soon… There is a passion you want so badly to flash on the radar to those you want to attract.

For me Kodoninja is not a household name, as of yet, I'm still not in the app store, planners aren’t finished and it's not promoted to thousands yet. My books aren’t published let alone written. My YouTube/ social media personality isn’t known and pouring with revenue. I don’t have a solid team for my vision… The list goes on and on.

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So. I’m not saying go for the next model, big-time creator, etc. Go for someone in your field of interest when the time is right. I may want to move on from my rock, but I’m not where I want to be. Im not known. And my god do I have a list of things that need to be accomplished. The kodoverse is no easy feat. Your purpose and goals sir or miss is no easy feat.

If you feel like you're at the point where you wish to date. Then go for it. I can’t settle for a Pikachu like Ash… I'm searching for my rare type, not a common pokemon you can find anywhere. Don’t settle for a Geodude…

The odd caveat to this analogy is. … … … pokemon evolve. Is this contradictory? Nope. Idk.. but listen…

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Let’s say you settle for a geodude as I did. Well… Geodude is learning how to write code by watching me, she is watching anime with me, learning chess, learning the ins and out of film mastery, she helps me with my writing and editing and my goals and vision…

She was pulled as a geodude now she's a graveler. And guess what she wasn’t just any rock I mean geodude, she was Alolan. Not just any rock… She can be a Gold Alolan Golem... Im polishing up my rock and making her shiny. A rare type.

Notice she’s Aloan. Yeah, a geodude but Aloan. You can’t find this rock in just any cave. If you are gonna go for a geodude make sure she’s polishing and prepared to be a shiny type with you...

Now if you were a pokemon. Which one would you be? I’d be a Mega Blaziken or Mega Lucario… Or should I say I’m more of a Combusken working my way there.

Now did I just contradict everything I just said up until this point? No not at all… It comes down to two decisions. In these decisions, they are like you.

Conclusion

If you're aiming for a Geodude, Meltan, or even Mew they all have pros and cons. Meltan is already rare and polished, while geodede is common and needs a lot of polishing to become rare…

i’m back! :) pic.twitter.com/DvpwgnTpXx

— ShinyQueen ? (@SaltQueenTTV) March 15, 2023

We can argue. Weren’t they born this way?… … … Well then you're not getting the analogy, let's move on.

⭐⭐⭐ Stay single until you can attract the type you want in your life. Don’t settle for common unless you're willing to put in the work and grow together. Just make sure your similar interest and hobbies are genuine.

I myself prefer those that are doing things that are similar to me. Or want to and have the genuine love for. A blogger is awesome. Then you know the amount of work that goes into just one article. A content creator, then you know the amount of work it takes to write, film, and edit a single video. The list goes on… Mew is cool but I like Heatmor, Metagross, Meltan. The types that aren’t common but aren’t super rare or legendary. They take time and effort to find. Or find you when you’ve reached a certain point or level. Everyone wants a mew, but not me. I am fairly simple, modest, and common.

Ask yourself, where are you? How far along on your purpose are you? I'd say I’m at 70%. My code is “done” I just need to polish errors, create content, and gather visitors, readers, subscribers, and followers. Whether its sell able merch or content for the platform or social media. There’s a lot but the heavy work is done.

Stay single, don’t settle. Sometimes waiting longer until you can attract a better quality is best. Remember you are you, you make your own decisions. And mine is mine. I’ll see you at the next one. If you haven’t done so already please subscribe it means a lot thank you